Cheer to the New Year

The New Year has barely passed, yet for the most part, it appears many people have already resigned themselves to the reality of returning to the routine of their jobs and the daily chores of maintaining their lives and homes. Whether anyone has made resolutions for 2008 and taken it upon themselves to honor and follow through on them is a personal choice of respect. I’ve long given myself the luxury of bypassing such time-tested failures. My actions speak louder than false promises.

Prior to the beginning of the Holiday Season at Thanksgiving many displayed a sense of despair, perhaps unable to hide the economic hardships that most of us experience due to unrealized homeowner insurance premiums and the degradation of the housing market; too many residents rely on construction income to make ends meet. Perhaps the primary cause of downcast, glum faces was the deadline of paying their property and school taxes, December 31st. The installment plan can delay the financial responsibility but it doesn’t change the total amount due.

It is well known that this is also the time of year when emotions run high as we center our thoughts on loved ones who are no longer a part of our lives. The passing of years makes little difference. I prefer to give grace for the memories and contributions of those who have provided love and friendship through the times of my life. Even those who have challenged my faith in man have a special place in my subconscious. Their actions have also impacted my person – without them I would be somewhat other than I am today.

I noticed an immediate, positive change of moods after Black Friday. I suspect the spirit of gift giving afforded a reprieve from the gloom and stresses of the Season, but many appeared to soon falter. Another spark of merriness came as the Day of Christmas approached and continued through New Year festivities.

It’s the following days and weeks that bring about the blues. Although there may be a feeling of rebirth on that first day of the year, the realities of life can once again dampen the prospects of prosperity.

As I make my necessary trips to places of business, I find a sense of pleasure in continuing the spirit of the New Year through January. A simple offering of a “Happy New Year” to store attendants and fellow consumers after the days of retrospect have passed can result in a positive response of acknowledgement. Not everyone may quite accept, or understand, my demonstration of compassion and goodwill, but that’s okay; it’s those who return a smile or show appreciation for my efforts that make my days that much more brighter.

Have a nice day and a year of happiness.